The memoir also recounts lingering friction tied to the Mar-a-Lago search and a 2021 perceived snub: Jill felt slighted that she was not invited to a traditional pre-inaugural tea and tour. She writes that these lapses and private coldness made the handshake and smiles feel especially hollow.
Across passages, Jill frames the episode as an example of a strained public relationship—polite on camera, tense in private—a dynamic she explores candidly in the book.